Contemplate

As I sit down to pen down my feelings, I wonder what is the thing that I want to write or what is the thing that is yet to be written. Life is a book in itself, where each day is a lesson. But the point is that do we actually learn from them.


Answer is No because we are too busy in doing nothing that we ignore everything else important. For example-Whenever, we are upset, we start questioning God, instead of looking on the situation and our role in it. We are so engaged and preoccupied in our lives running after things ( like a mad rat race ), that we hardly bother to stop for a while and contemplate on our actions.

The problem with us is that we worry about life's situations and conditions instead of contemplating on them. There is a saying- Chintan kijiye, chinta nahin. The solutions are all within us, but we scrounge them in the outer world, in books, people and things.

So, next time if you feel that you seek help, then just close your eyes, take a deep breath and listen quitely to your inner voice, as where lies all your answers.

Bhoot

Kya aap aatma mein vishwaas karte hain ? This is a dialogue that we all must have heard in most of the haunted movies, but the question is that do we really believe in ghosts ?

I guess we do and at some point of our life, we might have felt something  ( read as strange ), considering the stories and the superstitions attached with it. Ok, me not scaring anyone. Science might have refused the existence of ghosts but my beliefs are different. We all believe in God but we haven’t seen him, then why do we defy the existence of ghosts, just because we haven’t seen any. 

What do you mean by ghosts/spirits ( bhoot/aatma ) ?

For me this is the negative energy that surrounds us in the form of anger, jealousy, greed, pride, etc etc. So, this would mean that we all have a ghost inbuilt in us compensated by the positive/good energy . Now, it depends on us, how we deal with it and whom we give more importance to the positive or the negative. 

The day we fight over this bhoot in us will be the day when world will become a better place to live in.

Am I Safe ??

This is the question that each and every girl is asking herself and to the people around her. For the first time in my life, I was scared to step out of my house. Its because the amount of fear that the recent case has generated is unimaginable. But the point is whether this is the first rape case in our country where the victim was traumatised ? ? The answer is No.

Infact, cases like these have become so common, that Delhi is also called the Crime Capital of India. Then, why are we bothered now ? Why this sudden Anguish?  It’s a common story as, every minute a rape takes place in India. On top of it, it’s the Girl who is blamed and for what that she was raped because she is a girl. People come up with solutions that in order to stop such cases girls should not wear skirts, should not talk to boys, should not leave the house after 7 pm and the list doesn't ends here. In short, today in this 21^st Century (So called Modern Society ), being a girl can be your biggest mistake. So, What do we need to change to stop this brutal and inhuman crime ?

The answer is simple, it is we, the people who need to change. We need to  change our mentality.  Parents should teach their sons to respect women. If you can’t respect a girl then, it means you can’t respect your mother either. The next step should be that Eve Teasing should be completely banned. Boys take a pride in teasing girls and passing comments which should be reported  instead of ignoring them. Fast Action against the culprits could also instil a fear among the people.

These are just some of the things that we can take to stop this heinous crime. So, Guys, start respecting women. We are equal to you and not below you. 

Random

When life appears to be sad, nature tries to motivate us. For example - Sun, it wakes us in the morning with a new beginning and sets in the evening, giving room for Moon. This tells us that tomorrow there will be a new day ( a new beginning). It doesn't matters if today we were not able to achieve our goals, we were not able to realize our dreams. What matters is our effort and the zeal with which we tried. Tomorrow we can try again.

Mai ugta hu roz ek naye savere ke saath,
Ek nayi umeed ke saath,
To kya hua  jo kuch der ke liye chip jaata hu main,
Agle hi pal uth jata hota hoon main
Andhere ko mitane
jag me ujala failane
  

Inner Voice

Hearing to your inner voice!!
Sometimes its so difficult to hear to your own inner voice, because you are busy listening to everyone else that you forget that there exists a person in yourself who needs you. Before being for someone else you need to be there for yourself. You need to hear what that inner voice is trying to tell you, may be you need to spend some more time with yourself. Its an exercise that will make you true to yourself and when you are true to yourself, then only you can be true to anybody else. 

Hopefully someday we will not only be able to listen to it but follow it too for making this world a better place as our inner voice always leads us to the correct path.

Competition

We all have heard this word at some point in our lives and must have faced it too but what is actually competition, is it sitting in a competitive exam (where seats are a few thousand and candidates are in lakhs) or is it participating in a reality show (where reality is even worse than soap dramas). What meaning does the word COMPETITION hold in our lives ??
The answer is very complex because our entire life is based on this word. For children it might be coming first in the class, for teens it might be being popular in their group and for adults to progress at their working place, but where are we heading to ? Where this rat race will lead us ?? 
Are we happy from our lives??

We know the answer its a NO its because we are not satisfied. We are just running towards a never ending Goal. We forget to stop and to appreciate what we have, our family, beautiful nature and the power that God has given us, the power of being able to communicate, love and being loved by others. 
So stop for a while from your never ending schedule, keep aside your notebooks and laptops and feel what you have because life is too SHORT to regret !!     

Happiness

Google this word and we will find out number of links about how to be happy, its definition, but what is Happiness, that everyone is scrounging for it? Where does it actually lie and how do we find it? 
The answer is-
 That it is actually a state of mind and we have to search for it within our own inner selves. We always confuse our desires with Happiness but the Fact is that it couldn't be found in materialistic things.  Its simple to be happy but we complicate our life so much that we just forget this simple Formula
Smile = All Tensions gone 
So, Smile Please :)