Good V/S Evil

No, I am not here talking about the heroes or villains. I am here to talk about the good and evil within us. We all have a gray side to us, a balance of good and evil and we react to situations accordingly. In fact, nobody is totally black or totally white; we are all somewhere in between trying to cope between the two sides.

 

But the fact is that why do we fail to notice this in others?  For example- if we have a fight with a friend, then we expect him/her to apologize instead of us taking the first step. We think that it is their mistake and do not even talk for the sake of keeping the relationship intact. This is just an example but it’s a fact. We think of ourselves as angelic but while thinking of others we don’t even give consideration to their situation that they may be dealing with. If somebody shouts on us, we reciprocate instead of asking the other, what’s the matter. It could have been a bad day for them. When we think that others should understand us, then why can’t we understand them? Sometimes talking and even forgiving melts the ice and people become friends.

So, always try to understand others and think of them as a grey character and not as an evil.