Kabhi Haan, Kabhi Naa

No, I am not talking about the Shahrukh Khan movie but about our state of mind.
This is what exactly we all are these days, i.e. indecisive. A new Gen X - disease. Why is it so that it becomes so difficult for all of us to take a decision and to stand by it. Especially talking about our generation, we are so damn confused, whether its food, education or relationships. Should I eat pizza or pasta, should I do MBA or Govt Job......

We all are confused. The causes could be many, the obvious being the many choices available for each and everything ( even in relationships- if you don't fit in, there is somebody else ). Also, the lack of  power to take decisions and being easily influenced by our peers ( read as Peer Pressure ). All this leads to confusion and thus we look for advises from others.

But is this really a  big issue ? No, its just our mindset. The day we will realize what we exactly want will be the day that all this confusion will stop and peace will conquer.

Instant Love

Nice Title isn't it ?

These days when everything is instant from food to shopping ( you can buy everything in just a click ), then why not love !!!

People meet one day, they become friends and next day they are in a relationship. What comes up next-
Relationship status is changed on FB, selfies are clicked, day and night chats on Whats App, hanging around.

After a week-

Boredom strucks in, fights creep in, talking day and night seems to be encroaching each other's personal space.

Result- Instant Break up and then search will start again. It sounds funny but this is the reality. The other day I was talking to a friend who was confused about proposing someone. The reason was not rejection but the choices, too many to choose from ( one a smarty, one a simpleton and the list goes on.. ).

Facts says that the speed with which people committis half the speed with which they break up. Its because we lack the patience in everything that we do. Every relationship needs time and nuturing. Love is not a thing. Its a deep feeling.

Remember love can't be ordered over a click like a pizza !!!

Mahabharta

The Title itself gives way to a lot of thoughts. What this cud relate to ?

Few days back, I was watching Mahabharta on T.V. and felt shocked with Cheerharan episode ( everybody watching the drama including Bheeshma Pitamah, Dronacharya, Pandavas in the name of Dharma ). I mean in today's world, its so common but our history is filled with such examples. In Ramayan, Ravan kidnaps Sita and almost forces her to marry him ( kidnapping someone's wife ). So, this ill treatment is not a sudden outburst, it dates back to Satyug. Women were always treated like an object and the situation is still the same.

However, the only difference is that atleast at that time people were there to fight for  women, as, that's how wars took place ( killing of Ravan or Kauravas in Mahabharta ). Atleast guilties used to get their rewards sooner or later.

But today we have to fight for our own self, every minute, every second. Whether for our respect, rights or survival. Everywhere its the same. We all witness these people ( Duryodhan, Ravan ).

So, Keep fighting and never loose hope because someday we will win !!