Am I Safe ??

This is the question that each and every girl is asking herself and to the people around her. For the first time in my life, I was scared to step out of my house. Its because the amount of fear that the recent case has generated is unimaginable. But the point is whether this is the first rape case in our country where the victim was traumatised ? ? The answer is No.

Infact, cases like these have become so common, that Delhi is also called the Crime Capital of India. Then, why are we bothered now ? Why this sudden Anguish?  It’s a common story as, every minute a rape takes place in India. On top of it, it’s the Girl who is blamed and for what that she was raped because she is a girl. People come up with solutions that in order to stop such cases girls should not wear skirts, should not talk to boys, should not leave the house after 7 pm and the list doesn't ends here. In short, today in this 21^st Century (So called Modern Society ), being a girl can be your biggest mistake. So, What do we need to change to stop this brutal and inhuman crime ?

The answer is simple, it is we, the people who need to change. We need to  change our mentality.  Parents should teach their sons to respect women. If you can’t respect a girl then, it means you can’t respect your mother either. The next step should be that Eve Teasing should be completely banned. Boys take a pride in teasing girls and passing comments which should be reported  instead of ignoring them. Fast Action against the culprits could also instil a fear among the people.

These are just some of the things that we can take to stop this heinous crime. So, Guys, start respecting women. We are equal to you and not below you. 

Random

When life appears to be sad, nature tries to motivate us. For example - Sun, it wakes us in the morning with a new beginning and sets in the evening, giving room for Moon. This tells us that tomorrow there will be a new day ( a new beginning). It doesn't matters if today we were not able to achieve our goals, we were not able to realize our dreams. What matters is our effort and the zeal with which we tried. Tomorrow we can try again.

Mai ugta hu roz ek naye savere ke saath,
Ek nayi umeed ke saath,
To kya hua  jo kuch der ke liye chip jaata hu main,
Agle hi pal uth jata hota hoon main
Andhere ko mitane
jag me ujala failane
  

Inner Voice

Hearing to your inner voice!!
Sometimes its so difficult to hear to your own inner voice, because you are busy listening to everyone else that you forget that there exists a person in yourself who needs you. Before being for someone else you need to be there for yourself. You need to hear what that inner voice is trying to tell you, may be you need to spend some more time with yourself. Its an exercise that will make you true to yourself and when you are true to yourself, then only you can be true to anybody else. 

Hopefully someday we will not only be able to listen to it but follow it too for making this world a better place as our inner voice always leads us to the correct path.

Competition

We all have heard this word at some point in our lives and must have faced it too but what is actually competition, is it sitting in a competitive exam (where seats are a few thousand and candidates are in lakhs) or is it participating in a reality show (where reality is even worse than soap dramas). What meaning does the word COMPETITION hold in our lives ??
The answer is very complex because our entire life is based on this word. For children it might be coming first in the class, for teens it might be being popular in their group and for adults to progress at their working place, but where are we heading to ? Where this rat race will lead us ?? 
Are we happy from our lives??

We know the answer its a NO its because we are not satisfied. We are just running towards a never ending Goal. We forget to stop and to appreciate what we have, our family, beautiful nature and the power that God has given us, the power of being able to communicate, love and being loved by others. 
So stop for a while from your never ending schedule, keep aside your notebooks and laptops and feel what you have because life is too SHORT to regret !!     

Happiness

Google this word and we will find out number of links about how to be happy, its definition, but what is Happiness, that everyone is scrounging for it? Where does it actually lie and how do we find it? 
The answer is-
 That it is actually a state of mind and we have to search for it within our own inner selves. We always confuse our desires with Happiness but the Fact is that it couldn't be found in materialistic things.  Its simple to be happy but we complicate our life so much that we just forget this simple Formula
Smile = All Tensions gone 
So, Smile Please :)

Agle Janam Mohe Bitiya Na Kijo!!

The title itself says a lot about this bitter truth. We not only kill daughters in womb but we also murder them and their dreams too. When asked about, the educated society bluntly puts the blame on the rural arena but it is them who are the "Main" culprit. For example- still in families people discriminate between a son and a daughter.
 Why is it so that women have to struggle, even when it comes to their existence??
 Why is it so that we worship Durga Maa but when it comes to respecting our mothers and sisters, we become ignorant?? 
Where are we heading too?? and Where would this lead us too??
Please guys stop this crime!!

Why Bother ?

Why bother about anything or anyone, when life has offered us so much. Why it happens that we always crib about the thing that we don't have and never value a thing that we possess. I am not saying that we should stop dreaming and not work hard but we should atleast stop for a while and appreciate the things that god has given us. Nice lines from a song-


Cry cry itna cry
karte hain kaye ko
itna darte hain kaye ko,
pal pal marte kaahe ko........